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Friday, September 24, 2004

Rushing Our Hearts To Love

Before I bury my head into serious thinking about my workload, let me share this sensible article about rushing ourselves just because of love. Read on and ponder its message.

A Rush on Love

Somebody once told me that: "Finding the right person is very hard
and very wrong...it is best to be the right person for the one you
love and start from there...you'll always end up disappointed when
you set standards and define a "right person" for you...and don't rush
things coz somewhere somehow God is preparing somebody for you."

Don't be in a hurry to get into a relationship because you can never
find love if you insist that you are already into it. Try to find time to
really understand your real feelings, to know who you really are,
and what you really want in a relationship. You're right, there's
no such thing as a perfect relationship, but there's a compatible
partnership that goes along with it. If you already knew that you're
too big to fit into a small sized t-shirt, don't give it a try. You'll
probably break it and pay for the damages you have made.

If you knew and felt that the relationship will not last, don't go
deeper into it. You'll just suffer the consequences and live like
hell for the rest of your life. It's really hard to say goodbye
though, but you can't make it any better by just pretending you
still have the same feelings. Try to let go and give yourself a
chance to live life to the fullest. Give yourself a chance to grow
and give your heart a much-needed attention. Then you will find that
you have made the right decision and you made it all by yourself.

We call it love when we can't leave someone and see them crying as we
try to let go. We are wrong, it's just pity. We call it love when
we're too attached and think that losing the one we love will
somehow make us weak and unable to face the storms of life. We
misunderstood; it's just that we're too much dependent to them.
We call it love when we give our whole life to them,
The wholeness of us and imagined that if they leave,
no one would accept us and our past.
We are mistaken, its just insecurity.
But no matter what the definition is, the truth still remains
that love isn't something you can buy or beg.
It is real and existing.
You can't touch it but you can feel it in your heart.
You can't find it, but it will knock before you
when you least expect it to come.
It can make you the happiest soul in heaven,
but don't forget that it can also make you the most
miserable person in the whole galaxy.

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It is always refreshing to know what is in your mind. Thanks!