November 17, 2005

Malate Of The Good, Old Days

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Dear Me,

I miss Malate. Yeah, I do. Oh, it reminded me of a lot of things during my sneaky (hehehe) college years. The good ole days.

I have been working in Makati for half a decade now and I have been to a number of bars, cafes, nightspots along the strip. Tell you what, nothing beats the atmosphere and the wildness (but friendly) of dear, old Malate. I am challenged to say that Malate is better than the Makati night life.

Anyway, I heard about this new 'tambayan' in Malate. "A house for all art disciplines" - that's how they refer to it. Whether it's indie, alternative, experimental films or music videos and documentaries and you're a coffee addict, a beer or softdrinks drinker, the
Round Eyeglass Kape is open to those interested to watch, hear and drink.

They have Student's Night, Performance Artist's Night, Writer's Night, Poetry and Musician's Night and Filmmaker's Night. Hay, I can still remember attending a couple of poetry-reading nights at a Malate bar a long time ago. The excitement plus the nervousness was overwhelming when I stepped on-stage to read my piece. Nyak. =)

One of these days (meaning Friday or Saturday night), I am bound to swing by at Round Eyeglass Kape. The place is located in front of Starbucks Adriatico, Malate.
November 17, 2005

A Promise To Leave No Trace

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By JP Alipio (June 2003)

In this age adventure tourism, more and more people are coming out of the concrete jungles of the city in search of the great outdoors. These days it seems it is all the rage; the yuppies, members of high society and even the students in our colleges, seem to be taking up the pack and hitting the trail.

All well and good, as this practice has brought about a greater awareness to the plight of our environment, as well as a great clamor to save what is left of our precious ecosystems. But what any environmentally conscious outdoor person seems to forget, in the clamor to pack out all waste and leave no trace is that these places also have people, cultures who have lived in these areas for centuries undisturbed by time and living as one with the land.

Anyone who has gone through elementary education in the Philippines has probably been taught that Kaingin, which most mountain farmer's employ, is bad for the environment. Rightly so, but let us look at this in another light. The people living in the mountains have been practicing this method of farming for centuries, yet it is only in the last hundred years that our forests have gone from a hefty 80% at the beginning of the 1900's to a meager 17% at present. Let us ask ourselves why then do we portray this practice with such fervent propaganda, that it is ingrained in every Filipino child's mind that kaingin has been the cause for the loss of our nations forests, when it was only in the last century with the coming of modern logging technology that our mountains have been laid bare and robbed of all their glory.

Adventure tourism has brought about a greater awareness for the environment in which we live in, yet these adventurers seem to forget in their haste to reach the summit and conquer the mountain that mountaineering is not only about who is the fastest or who takes down the most trash, but it is also about the people, not the adventurers, but the true mountaineers; these are the children of the mountains.

Mountain after mountain throngs of mountaineers, excursionists, tourists, go searching for the thrill and adventure of the outdoors, taking care to leave no trace and save what is left of our precious environment. It seems that they miss quite a few important things as they go up the mountain. I have seen more and more flock to these mountain hideaways, they hire porters and guides, they bring their cars and their music, and most of all they bring their city lives. It seems the pollution is no longer just a matter of picking up the non-biodegradable trash, but also picking up what is left of our own characters as well.

Again and again we see it, these people's lives, their culture, irreparably changed by the onslaught of tourism. Although tourism does bring a source of livelihood for these people it also brings with it something else. Watching this happen can be likened to the biblical Adam and Eve. These people of the mountains live in Eden, happy and unaware living their lives in the blissful freedom of their mountain homes, and we the tourists are the snakes, who bring the forbidden fruit of civilization, to the people who call freedom their home.

In Ifugao the people have been so changed by tourism that they only don their traditional clothes if tourists will pay them to take their pictures. I have often asked why it has come to this; do they not take pride in what is theirs? Has tourism opened their eyes to the shame of wearing their traditional garments? In Battad you will see signs at every inn, and Battad has quite a few, which say "WE SERVE COLD SOFTDRINKS AND HOT PIZZA." On one visit there I asked myself, was I a part of this change? Where was the Tapuy and Itag, it had been replaced by the tourists clamor for Pizza and ice cold Coca-cola.

Once somewhere in the Cordillera Mountains a local who I had the pleasure of becoming friends with asked me, "nu mabalin ko nga saludsudin nu apay nga mapmapan kayo idtoy? Inya ti maala yu idtoy ngay?" For the first time I had no answer to the question that had been asked me numerous times by my friends and family, I did not know what to say. For these people my adventure was daily life, and for me their life was a great adventure.

If we are to stick to our promise to Leave no Trace and leave the mountains as free as when we first came. Let us not bring our "ideal" city lives to these people; instead let us bring back to the city the freedom and simplicity of these people from the mountains of Eden.
November 16, 2005

The Blossoming Of Maximo Oliveros

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Dear Me,

I am really looking forward to watch the film,
Ang Pagdadalaga ni Maximo Oliveros (The Blossoming of Maximo Oliveros), which will be shown on November 30.

Written by Michiko Sy Yamamoto and Raymond Lee plus directed by Solito Aureus, the film is all about
gay, pre-teen Maxi is slavishly and uncomplainingly devoted to his family of small-time criminals. He cleans house for them, washes their underwear, mends their tattered jeans, and if push comes to shove, covers their tracks so they will not get caught. His world revolves around them. That is, until he meets Victor, a principled, idealistic and handsome policeman."



Maxi is at the crossroads - that is, choosing between loyalty to his family or fighting for the purity of his first love?

Despite the growing numbers of the male homo belonging to the third sex, the skeptics amongst us have yet to learn to dispel antipathy and indifference. Our patriarchal society has dictated this kind of flow in our system.

Gays are fun to be with; not because they are always the butt of jokes but because they are adorable and enjoyable in their own way. They are witty and creative.

By the way, this film is also one of the winning entries in the recently-held Cinemalaya festival. Don't forget to watch it.
November 15, 2005

Memory Of A Lost Love

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Dear Me,

I could not help but post the article below. Re-reading it brought some bittersweet memories of my past. I guess LOVE made me "breathless and hurt, inspired and furious, affectionate and listless"...

In fact, LOVE taught me lots of things and yes, it made me a little less proud and indifferent.


I Love You

So maybe what we had was love. Maybe I loved you, and I hope to heavens that you loved me back: even just for a split second when we held hands, or during that moment when I looked into your eyes, or the time when I laughed at one of your silly quirks. I'd be content with that idea, I'd be content that in the course of our friendship, there was a moment of mutuality; even if it was so quick I never noticed it all.

Perhaps I still do love you, but that won't do much now. I can fight to save everything that I've invested, but I chose not to. I have treasured you in the past, and that will be enough. Right now, all I can do is wish you well in all your endeavors, including the pursuit for the one who is right for you. When you find him, I wish he makes you happy. You make him happy as well.

The end is only a beginning disguised as a parting. I will still think about you every now and then, probably be sad once in a while, but you need not to worry. For I am okay and I will be okay under all circumstances. It may take time for me to love again, but in the long run, it will be all worth it. I may still risk myself, but every risk in its own respect is worth taking anyway. Love is such a convoluted mixture of emotions and decisions that it's a matter of working your way through it.

Thank you for gracing my life like a whirlwind, leaving me breathless and hurt, inspired and furious, affectionate and listless. You've taught me quite a lot and I learned them in the most humbling manner. Thank you for showing me what it means to be human, to commit mistakes, and to discover how to regain yourself after everything that had happened.

Like what I always say, Ad astra per aspera. A rough road leads to the stars. I'm on my way to becoming stellar.
November 14, 2005

Each Day That Goes By (2)

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Dear Me,

  • Another movie marathon list:

  1. Breaking All The Rules
  2. Dark Water
  3. Beauty Shop
  4. The Human Stain
  5. Transporter 2
  6. Flight of the Phoenix
  7. Stealth
  8. Truth About Love
  9. 5 Children & It
  10. Bewitched
  11. The Perfect Man
  12. Just Married
  13. My BF is Type B
  14. Batman Begins (re-watched)
  15. The Godfather Part I (1972), II (1974), III (1990)







  • Another tv series marathon list:

  1. The Closer Season 1
  2. Charmed
  3. Numbers
  4. CSI Miami
  5. NCIS
  6. Supernatural
  7. Bones
  8. Global Frequency
  9. Prison Break
  10. In Justice
  11. Alias
  12. Las Vegas Season 1
  13. Surface


  • Together with Jill, we manned the company booth in the Manila FAME exhibition held at the World Trade Center. It was fun and boring at the same time. My boredom took its toll when I started shooting some photos (soon to be uploaded).

    Also, we signed up to have a new Citibank credit card. I did not know what hit me but I had really avoided getting one from Citibank due to an old experience. But, there I go! I am praying that it won't be approved.

    Another thing, it got me thinking (about the path where my life is heading) and convinced (perhaps?) to take a
    double degree in Information Technology instead of pursuing a master's degree. Whatcha think?

  • Would you believe that I developed an instant crush on Lance Armstrong? And then I discovered that it was Sheryl Crow who sang the song that I like? Yeah, they are current lovebirds... *tweet* *tweet*

  • I went to Baywalk's BayBreak with Papi. We wander around, saw some 'artistas' and some bands. I was not able to see Hale nor Cueshe. Anyway, we were able to try the food served at Indo's Strip and had an embarassing but good laugh listening to their band. Up to now, I am still in wonder if she/he is a girl or guy.

  • I decided to spend quality time with my younger brother. We bonded together by requesting him to accompany me to buy groceries at the supermarket. We ended up checking the new SM Tayuman which I discovered was the SM San Lazaro, too. But before we did grocery shopping, we did food-tripping, check the new cellphones and encouraged him to buy a new pair of shoes or sandals (which he declined). The time was kinda short but it was worth it.

    Also, papi followed us there. Why? I don't know. I'm really getting curious why he is so excited to see newly-opened SM malls (it reminded me of his excitement in visiting SM Baguio...hehehe!).

  • I am reading another book aside from Under The Duvet by Marian Keyes; this time, The Icarus Agenda by Robert Ludlum .

  • Due to a big, important function the next day, I had to spend the night at New World Renaissance Hotel. Despite the comfy surroundings, I was not able to sleep well because I had to check the venue at two o'clock in the morning. Sleeping was out of the question because I knew that I would not be able to wake up early. I was so exhausted since I was working very late that night.

  • Everytime papi & I go to Quiapo, we never forget to dine and have a yummy special mami & asadong siopao at Ma Mon Luk Restaurant. It was kinda saddening to see how the place had deteriorated over time. I view this how-many-decades-old restaurant slowly disappearing to oblivion and decay.

  • 2 weekends ago, I called Yellow Cab for a pizza delivery. I was so sorry for trying it. Their pizza was salty and too oily for my taste. If only I waited for Pizza Hut. Curse that brown-out.

  • I'm getting addicted to ice cream. Papi has this habit of bringing a half gallon of ice cream everytime we plan a movie marathon (which is normally scheduled on Saturday nights). Yeah, I'm a growing couch potato.

  • The office had this farewell party for my colleague who will be leaving for the US in a few days. It was kinda sad for me because I'm the only senior left in our batch. Hmm. Ako kaya, kelan aalis?

  • Together with some climbing buds, we had a pizza & pasta dinner at this newly-opened resto at Glorietta known for its distinct and original pasta sauces called Aveneto Pizzeria Ristorante. Afterwards, we headed straight to Pasay Road to play billiards.

  • Last last Saturday, papi & I went to Intramuros. We wander around, walked around the walls surrounding the fortress, dropped by at the Clamshell and see the ongoing performance. I bought some cute, dangling earrings and beaded accessories for the wrist and neck. I got excited. Hehehe.

    Afterwards, we headed to Quiapo to have an item exchanged because it was kinda faulty. Then, we had dinner at Goldilocks (I was supposed to treat papi at Pizza Hut or Shakey's but I guess he did not feel like dining there.) and did a little shopping before going home.

  • I developed an intense back pain and headache last Monday due to a marathon-watching of The Godfather, Parts I & II. I even had to take a sick leave the next day. Bad, bad.

  • Last Wednesday, we (me, J and former office batchmates) had dinner at Baywalk, particularly at Panay Kalipay. This was a more intimate farewell get-together of the oldies, according to Jhoan. Hey girl, I know that we had lots of major differences and our interests simply do not click but once in a while, we agree on some things. Hehehe. Bon voyage!

  • ...
November 08, 2005

Each Day That Goes By (1)

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Dear Me,

Let me count the ways how my days, weeks, months had passed. Golly! This is becoming a habit. Mmm.

  • I just realize how hilarious Joey Tribbiani is. Honestly, Matt LeBlanc's character in the winning TV series Friends to its spin-off Joey, never waned even a single bit. In fact, his acting prowess shone all the more. Nothing beats Joey (ahem, now I can hear Joey himself saying that, nyahaha!)

  • It seemed like I was watching movies after movies. Most of them were watched via DVD. Yeah, a movie marathon. Just imagine how I spent most of my weekends, my vacation & sick leaves & even the few hours before I close my eyes to sleep.

    1. Coach Carter (I wonder if this kind of iron hand still exists anywhere, especially here in RP)
    2. The Cave (I was with papi when we watched this at Galleria. The movie showed the perils of caving excluding the reality of those monstrous predators. Thinking about being trapped in an underground cave gave me extreme jitters)
    3. Perfect Catch aka Fever Pitch (I just do not know if I can love someone that much when that someone is totally hooked to something you do not even have an idea how or what it is)
    4. Monster-In-Law (Fonda was great here, even JLo did)
    5. Cadet Kelly (I am a Hilary Duff fan...hehehe)
    6. The Skeleton Key (kinda boring in the beginning but throughout the movie, I was literally watching in between my fingers. The scary but 'bulaga' scenes kept me on the edge of my seat)
    7. Crash (might look boring but this one gave out new perspective)
    8. A Lot Like Love (I could not imagine that you could screw a stranger in the plane's wash room without being noticed)
    9. Lovely Rivals (funny Korean movie)
    10. DEBS (I could not believe I finished watching this movie)
    11. The Longest Yard (starring Adam Sandler with the small participation Courney Cox as a bitchy girl)
    12. Arahan (Papi had been urging me for the nth time to watch this but I always made the final excuses. Hehehe. It was inevitable that we did watch it together that I discovered that it was a hilarious movie after all) *bonks self*
    13. The Final Cut (it should not be included here because I did not finish watching this one. It was very dragging from the start)


  • My siblings and I had a feast when Mamu made yummy fruit salad one weekend. Tell you what, it was I who guttled a greater percentage of that dessert. Takaw ko noh? =)

  • Finally, I had my hair rebonded. It took me a number of paydays before I could save that whopping amount in exchange for a couple of months of good hair day & good hair feeling. That's vanity but it was also a necessity. *sings sumusunod sa galaw mo, sumusunod...* Hehehe.

  • For quite a while, I fagged out the remaining hour or two of my waking moment during weekdays watching the episodes of:
    1. Without A Trace Season 2
    2. CSI Miami Season 4
    3. Jake 2.0
    4. Tru Calling
    5. NCIS
    6. Numbers
    7. The Grid
    8. La Femme Nikita Season 3 (I was addicted to this series when I was in early high school)


  • I had frequent sick leaves for the past few weeks. Yeah, experiencing back pains again? *winks*

  • I was so surprised to learn that she (our hotel's corporate account executive) had resigned without prior notice. I wonder if she resigned because I sort of implied some of her mistakes when dealing with our office. I did not feel guilty because all I told her were criticisms she ought to do something about - it was for her sake and career. Also, I did not think she would resign because of what I said. She was too strong and too smart for that. I'm planning to give her a ring soon.

  • I had been listening to Orange and Lemons music lately. I had their 2003 & 2005 copies.
    When I get near you
    I feel something deep within me
    You know you bring me to new heights
    I'm like a big balloon filled with hot air
    Ready to explode
    Each and every time I kissed you

    The more I'm with you
    The more it feels like
    This could be the beginning of something wonderful
    Yeah, yeah


  • I had been 2 weeks out of the office for a project. It was so draining that there were times I dropped dead, straight into bed without changing clothes. I guess I am REALLY getting older. The big 3-0 is just around the corner. Darn.

  • I found another crepe station! Glorietta has it! But I like better the one at Greenbelt. Also I am raring to have a crepe taste again at Cafe Breton. Sinong gusto makipag-date sa akin doon? Hehehe. *peace* papi. =)

  • I had this caller at home whom I really did not really feel like chatting with. First of all, I never gave him my house number and secondly, the people who knew my number knew MY rules about phone calls at the house.

  • I joined the pre-climb for Mt. Tapulao slated for the next weekend. I was able to meet a few, new climb pals. They seemed nice. And of course, Richard was there. Actually, I did not know he was back in town after his brief working stint overseas. =)

  • I heard that a friend was hospitalized. From what I understood, his body gave up from 'lack of good physical caring'. I then thought to myself that as much as I think that I can manage not sleeping straight for 3 days and just gobble a couple of Red Bull drinks to perk up my woozy mind & body, it won't be soon enough that something worse is to happen. If I really cannot help doing what I usually do, I promise myself that I have to take action, bits and pieces. I just have to.

  • I felt sad that for the nth time, I missed participating in UP Manila Pahinungod's Inception Anniversary. I miss my voltmates, terribly.

  • At last, I was able to buy this 'kikay' shoes that I was ogling for quite a time. It was cute but I just found out that it was not so comfy to wear for a long time. Sayang.

  • As I mentioned before, my pc is still knocked down. Papi had to bring the CPU with him and had it checked out. Hay naku! Nakaka-miss talaga na walang pc kasi hindi ako makapag-surf, makapag-blog at makapag-email chat ng mahaba. Ninuninuninu.

  • I made sure that there would be one Saturday that I would help papi clean his apartment. It was mission accomplished; though we still have to do more intensive cleaning of nooks and crannies. Some other time, hopefully soon.

  • I discovered how yummy Greenwich's Crispy Trios was. Kinda perfect for my taste - tasty beef, onions, tomatoes and cheese on top of a thin, tortilla crust. *salivates*

  • My monthly salary during this period shoot up due to overtime pays. Hehehe. Lotsa money to burn. Ok, I was able to pay a sizable amount for my credit card debt.

  • Just for the benefit of stretching a few muscles and bones before my Mt. Tapulao climb, I had to literally get my ass to the gym in Buendia. It had been quite a while and I was a little off sweating it out at the treadmill and the stationary bike. Jerry of MFPI arrived afterwards and before I gave up, he asked me to do some flexing in one of the equipment. I made a number of repetitions & it was pretty exhausting. Papi was doing the same and after a couple hours, we decided to quit. I was worried that I might tire my legs too much that I would not be able to get up the next day which was still a working day (I had a field project and having muscle pains was inexcusable, at least for me). Well, our efforts were drained so we decided to have a 'feast' at Max' Restaurant. Hehehe.

  • The next day (after office work), I went to shop at Landmark. I was able to purchase a pink, comfy shirt and black pedal pushers. Usually, I do not fit what I buy which normally ends up a little too tight or a little too short for me. So, this time, I took the heat by lining up and trying it on. Satisfied with the fit & size, I bought it. Also, I bought my own groceries (both of which will be needed for some of my household chores to be done that night as well as items needed for my climb during the weekend). Midnight, I started packing my trek stuff since we would be leaving Manila for Zambales by Friday night.

  • Friday was the last day of my project and after the evaluation meeting in the afternoon, I got ready to leave for home. I had to go back home because I intentionally left my trekking bag there. I arrived home by 7:30pm, re-arranged my pack and stuffed all the things I needed in that bag. After an hour, I joined my mother and sister for dinner. I was perspiring so I decided to take a shower at 9pm. I left the house at 9:50pm & by 10:15pm, I was already walking towards the Victory Liner bus terminal in Caloocan. I happened to bump with Carol & Ryu on my way. Anyway, I caught up with Marlon & Che-ann at the terminal as well while the rest were stuck somewhere due to the heavy rain that night. When everybody was up and about, we hit the 11:15pm trip to Zambales. Throughout the trip, I was asleep.

  • We arrived at Zambales Saturday dawn, at 4am. Some went to the market to buy our food while the rest had breakfast. The Mt. Tapulao climb was a good climb despite those spiteful slippery-slimy rocks. They almost sent me sliding down the trail. Bwitet.

  • It was already early dawn (Monday) when we arrived at Manila. I decided to take a half-day leave but ended up in a 2 & a half-day leaves. My muscles were killing me. Hehehe. "Nabanat kasi ng sobra eh." *giggles* During that 2 days, all I did was cleaned the house, ate noodles for lunch (not because I was really feeling weak but because I was feeling too lazy to cook for myself since everybody was out), watched Tru Calling via DVD, cooked dinner for my mom & sis.

  • Well, I missed attending the PinoyWriters' Forum at Powerbooks because I opted to spend scaling trails rather than learning something new about writing. I sort of regret my action but I really wanted to do both; which was not possible.

  • Wednesday mid-noon, I reported for work. Same day as usual except for this Holiday Inn Clark account executive who wanted me to get a membership of some sort. I would have welcomed it if it weren't such a bad time. Hmm.

  • I finally finished watching the episodes of Tru Calling & moved on to the the 3rd season of NCIS showing the following scenes when Agent Kate was shot by this brainwashed agency undercover-turned-terrorist.

  • I was so stunned to have seen the tv news about the Bali attack. I was disturbed by how these insane people could kill countless of innocents. May you NUTS rot in hell.

  • Cutting my rice intake, I usually request Papi that we eat dinner lightly. Usually, we end up at Starbucks (ordering our favorite frappes and croissants) or Wendy's (mine was fries and salad).

  • Mere coincidence or what? Three of my friends - Edith, Jheng & Bajoy would like to meet with everyone. They all said that they were missing our group (PEx & ATMC).

  • I had a chat with an officemate & she revealed that she would be resigning soon. soon mean November. She is bound to try her luck in the US. Now, that sent me rethinking my life's purpose again.

  • I really feel guilty that Arnold keeps on calling me to try their gym out. It is just too far away. I mean, Greenhills is.

  • My violet umbrella gave up on me during my climb at Mt. Tapulao so papi bought me another 2 violet umbrellas of the same type & shade. It had been raining everyday and I hated bringing those big umbrellas we had at the house.

  • Due to the perceived idea that I was not feeling well because of my muscle pains at the back, I was excused from joining a field project.

  • Papi told me a bad news about his work & I really felt sad and worried for him. Makarma ka din for the bad things you are doing to your people there. (I could not help but wish that I am a mangkukulam. Hehehe)

  • For 2 days, I was compiling photos at work & the ones that I got with me. I was archiving them chronologically before I burn them completely.

  • Finally, I had started reading Marian Keyes' book 'Under The Duvet' - she really writes well.

  • I was at Manila Hotel last week to man our booth as organized by the Philippine Chamber of Commerce in this year's Philippine Business Conference. The day was a drag but the good thing was there was a hall that served as heaven for me - with lots of food & stuff like native bags, accessories, etc. Even Montanara was there. But I was saddened when Jil bought the purple backpack I was eyeing devilishly.

  • Due to a recent cold confrontation + misunderstanding in the office, I had to encash my cheque at Citibank by myself. Despite the office's initiative, I denied it since I was capable of doing that (except in-between my project schedules where I am mostly out in the field) Oh, pride.

  • Once in a while, I get into a minor tiff - either with my mom or my sis. My mom because of misinterpreted gestures or wrong choice of words; my sister because of her irritating attitude when reminded of her only required task in the house.


To be continued...
November 05, 2005

Photos, Photos

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Dear Me,

I had been very busy for the past 3 months now due to my projects at work. Also, I could not blog because my pc at the house broke down and I really did not have much time to sit down and write something.

Anyway, do check out the photos I had uploaded at
my Multiply site. There is more to come!

To everyone who checks in and take a peep at me to say hullo, I really want to say thank you. I really appreciate it! =)

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